Being cold and closed may seem safe right now, but it’s not. Instead of protecting your heart, you imprison it. Love is not a crime.
Dreaming with A Broken Heart
The problem with love is that though we get to chose who we love, we don’t get to chose who loves us back.
Self Love
“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.” - Lucille Ball
Learning to love yourself starts with making a conscious decision, an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life. When you do not love yourself and suffer from low self esteem, it is almost impossible to ever reach the potential that you suspect you have.
When you make a decision to love yourself, you are really saying that you want to come alive. You accept that you are responsible for the outcomes that you experience in your life and would like yourself to shine from living a fulfilling life.
Be Happy…You deserve it. ~ K
Growth Spurts
You outgrow people who don’t belong in your life. Those people who spend more time being spiteful and hateful towards you, who brings misery. Instead of encouraging you and being that support that you need. Never let someone take away your self worth or bring you insecurity. You get rid of people that aren't healthy for you, let it go. But thru it all remain humble.
So nice I had to post on my blog it twice. Please read the message. ~ Keith
How To Cure A Broken Heart
“Just give me time and I’ll get over you”
Let’s be honest..Everyone of us has been through a bad break up that has left us somewhat bitter, confused, hurt and feeling like the rug has been pulled from under our feet. I remember the first time when my heart was broken. I was 7 years old at the time and the girl I was dating dumped me for a 6th grader.( It change my life forever.) I felt like my world was coming to an end. I remember my mom telling me that this will be the first of many heartbreaks. I will experience in my lifetime. There are times when we are going to cause the heartbreak of others and then there are times when we are going be on the receiving end of it. I must admit my last two relationships have left me a little gun-shy at all possibilities of finding that one true love. But, the important thing I have to remember is not to hold on the past. It’s easier said than done. But, as a wise man was said, “time will heal all wounds.” I wonder how many times have he been dumped in his life? When we find ourselves at our lowest points from a break-up. Here are somethings we can do make things much easier for getting over it.
1) Don’t waste time hating your ex. – Life to short to be holding a grudge about things you cannot control.
2) Take a much-needed break from dating. – I feel the biggest mistake people make after a break-up is to hop into another relationship right away. Take some time off and find yourself. That way you will not carry baggage into your next relationship.
3) Don’t be friends with your ex. – Being friends with someone you are still in love with will prolong the healing process.
4) Put all memtos out of sight. – My last ex had some many items at my apartment at one point I thouight it was her place. So, I packed up her clothes, jewelry, and her damn neon pink snuggie. I also gave her a week to pick everything up from my place. when she didn’t show up I gave everything away to a woman’s shelter in my neighborhood. Everything except her Chanel Boots. I sold those babies and bought a Xbox 360.
5) Take a moment to love yourself. – Book yourself a spa day or a day trip. Get away from everyone and everything.
Hopefully, these things will make a break-up a little easier for you to deal with. Remember self love is the most important form of love. It’s the source that all love is grown from. If you don’t love yourself…you will be unable to love anyone else.
Gospel From the Strippers Pole
I don’t know what all the fuss is about on other blogs sites about La Tascha Emanuel‘s video sermon. It’s only a titty and God created titties to feed the world. I enjoyed her sermon. Who are we to judge? Let the church say “Amen”. Watch the video below. I wonder if they have a Champagne Room at her church?
Fuck It (I Don’t Want You Back)
I think the main reason why people take their exes back is because they are used to that person. Sometimes it’s easier to just continue to stay with someone, because they are comfortable with them. Starting new relationship can be scary for some people. They are scare to step outside of their comfort zone to get know someone new. I hear this a lot from people who get back with their exes. I did that once and it was one of the biggest regrets I ever made. But for some reasons exes always try to come back and try to reconnect after they leave. I learn some thing are better left in the past.
Late Nite Thoughts #19: Questions
Don’t worry about those who question your intention. As long as God knows your heart is in the right place, you’re good. ~ Keith
Merry Christmas 2012
Gifts of time and love are surely the basic ingredients of a truly Merry Christmas. Wishing my readers & fellow blogger a very Merry Christmas. Peace & Love ~ K
