Being cold and closed may seem safe right now, but it’s not. Instead of protecting your heart, you imprison it. Love is not a crime.
Dreaming with A Broken Heart
The problem with love is that though we get to chose who we love, we don’t get to chose who loves us back.
Good Ole’ Puppy Love
Relationships were so much easier when I was a kid. All I had to was ask if she wanted to help me color the page and if she said yes then she automatically became my girl. No dates, no insecurities, no sex but just good ole’ puppy love.
Growth Spurts
You outgrow people who don’t belong in your life. Those people who spend more time being spiteful and hateful towards you, who brings misery. Instead of encouraging you and being that support that you need. Never let someone take away your self worth or bring you insecurity. You get rid of people that aren't healthy for you, let it go. But thru it all remain humble.
So nice I had to post on my blog it twice. Please read the message. ~ Keith
How To Cure A Broken Heart
“Just give me time and I’ll get over you”
Let’s be honest..Everyone of us has been through a bad break up that has left us somewhat bitter, confused, hurt and feeling like the rug has been pulled from under our feet. I remember the first time when my heart was broken. I was 7 years old at the time and the girl I was dating dumped me for a 6th grader.( It change my life forever.) I felt like my world was coming to an end. I remember my mom telling me that this will be the first of many heartbreaks. I will experience in my lifetime. There are times when we are going to cause the heartbreak of others and then there are times when we are going be on the receiving end of it. I must admit my last two relationships have left me a little gun-shy at all possibilities of finding that one true love. But, the important thing I have to remember is not to hold on the past. It’s easier said than done. But, as a wise man was said, “time will heal all wounds.” I wonder how many times have he been dumped in his life? When we find ourselves at our lowest points from a break-up. Here are somethings we can do make things much easier for getting over it.
1) Don’t waste time hating your ex. – Life to short to be holding a grudge about things you cannot control.
2) Take a much-needed break from dating. – I feel the biggest mistake people make after a break-up is to hop into another relationship right away. Take some time off and find yourself. That way you will not carry baggage into your next relationship.
3) Don’t be friends with your ex. – Being friends with someone you are still in love with will prolong the healing process.
4) Put all memtos out of sight. – My last ex had some many items at my apartment at one point I thouight it was her place. So, I packed up her clothes, jewelry, and her damn neon pink snuggie. I also gave her a week to pick everything up from my place. when she didn’t show up I gave everything away to a woman’s shelter in my neighborhood. Everything except her Chanel Boots. I sold those babies and bought a Xbox 360.
5) Take a moment to love yourself. – Book yourself a spa day or a day trip. Get away from everyone and everything.
Hopefully, these things will make a break-up a little easier for you to deal with. Remember self love is the most important form of love. It’s the source that all love is grown from. If you don’t love yourself…you will be unable to love anyone else.
Keep It Simple by Keith Harris
People that know me..know I try to live life as simple as possible. I try to not stress and let others change the way I live my life. I've learn that life is so short and only you are responsible for your happiness. So, I learn to keep it simple. I avoid negative people and situations. I learn that I am not in control of my life and allow God to guide me in the direction where I need to be.
Throwback Blog - Keep It Simple
Sometimes U Have To Just Let Go
Last night, I ran into a ex-girlfriend that I dated once for a short period. She introduce me to her husband and I so was happy that she found that special someone. There have been times in my life when I have dated some amazing women. They were perfect. I really can't say anything negative about them. So, why didn't I end up with someone?Because, my heart and soul knew they deserved better.
Throwback Blog
Fuck It (I Don’t Want You Back)
I think the main reason why people take their exes back is because they are used to that person. Sometimes it’s easier to just continue to stay with someone, because they are comfortable with them. Starting new relationship can be scary for some people. They are scare to step outside of their comfort zone to get know someone new. I hear this a lot from people who get back with their exes. I did that once and it was one of the biggest regrets I ever made. But for some reasons exes always try to come back and try to reconnect after they leave. I learn some thing are better left in the past.
Artists You Should Know: Melanie Fiona
If I had my way to would launch a radio station that would give every artist a chance to showcase their music, especially Melanie Fiona. If you’re unfamiliar with Melanie’s work, I seriously recommend you check out her website: http://melaniefiona.com/ & download her latest CD “The MF Life” from iTunes. Please take some time out to listen to Melanie’s music- which would be far more popular if it was given the financial backing both she and her talent deserve. Check out her latest video “Wrong Side of A Love Song” below. I’m looking forward to seeing Melanie perform in Chicago very soon.
