One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it’s guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayl. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go. We got learn to burn the past. Never look back. I always tell people…You can hold onto the memory without holding onto the pain. To quote “From the Book of Usher” just let it “Burn”.
I saw this video in my Facebook timeline last night. I’ll never dip anything in a jar of Nutella the same way after watching this. Check out the video below.
An amazing thing happens when you get honest with yourself and start doing what you love, what makes you happy. Your life literally slows down. You stop wishing for the weekend. You stop merely looking forward to special events. You begin to live in each moment and you start feeling like a human being. You just ride the wave that is life, with this feeling of contentment and joy. You move fluidly, steadily, calm and grateful. A veil is lifted, and a whole new perspective is born…
“The moment I was able to persuade a woman who was faithful & loyal to her man to give me her body….Was the very moment my Trust Issues began..” – Keith Harris
Above is the opening line for an article I was going to write. But, I was having such a hard time writing it & trying to finish it by the deadline. I guess once I started to look at my flaws and my mistakes. The truth became so overwhelming that it put me in a strange head space. I realize that we are one choice away from having a different life. I made a choice that change the entire way I view relationships. So many relationships have suffered for my point of view. Never really wanting to give a woman all of me. Because in the back of my mind I didn’t trust her based off one life changing event.
We all have choices to make it life. I always say it’s amazing how one bad decisions can affect the lives of so many others. We all have issues and I’m well aware of mines. So, I’ll keep praying for God to make me better.
I’m always confuse when people tell me that they have built walls around their heart in order to keep getting hurt by someone. I could never understand why people continue to allow someone to hurt them once the relationship is over. Love is about taking chances. Putting yourself out to experience something fresh and new. So to those that are still holding on to the pain of previous relationships I have some advice for you. You can hold on to the memory without holding on to the pain.