I tried several times to write an intro for this video. But, couldn’t find the proper way to express myself tonight. So, just let the music play while I look for my ego.
“If I had a son, he’d look like Trayvon.” – President Barack Obama
I’m so sadden by the death of this young man. This a time for us to come together as one voice to make sure Trayvon did not die in vain. Please, I beg everyone…Let’s not make this is the Social Media fad of the week. RIP Trayvon. I’m praying for your family.
The truth of the matter is people are who they are & while you do everything you can to change them. Ultimately, it is you that changes. You began to think it is ok to be lied to, used, & hidden like some kind of dirty secret. So lie to yourself and say it doesn’t hurt anymore but DO NOT lie to me. You see, I remember the woman you used to be and it makes me sad to see the woman you have become.
There is a special woman that I have so much love & respect for that whenever she calls it’s a always a pleasure to her voice. I’m very happy of the things she has accomplish and proud to see that she is one of the youngest Vice President in her company’s history. But, once we get past all the pleasantries that’s when the real fun begins. She always wants an answer of why I ended our relationship without any explaination. See, at the time we were dating I felt our relationship was steering her away from her goals & her dreams. But, what can say to her is “I am sorry for hurting you, but I’m also sorry due to how I’ll never really felt sorry for what I did to you.” If I had to do it all again I would make the same decison but handle it little differently. I know she will never forgive for hurting her. But, someday I hope she will understand my decision for wanting the best for her.
Once upon a time, not long ago in the land of Chicago there lived a very beautiful woman. This woman had everything that any man would desire in a wife. She was smart, funny, career minded, God Fearing & she was a Chicago Bears’ Fan. One night while stepping onto an elevator our handsome hero noticed this very beautiful woman. He also noticed what button was lit up on the panel for the roof top bar. Before he pressed the button for his floor. After he was done conducting business he hurried to bar where he knew he could find this woman that captured his attention. After searching the crowed room he found he found her. He introduce himself to her while she ordering a drink. The two hit it off well & exchange numbers. After a couple of phone calls and some lunch dates. The handsome hero decided this beautiful woman would make a great mate. See, what he wanted was someone to enhance his life. So, after months & months of pursuing this beatiful woman. The handsome man prayed to the Lord for sign to open this beautiful woman’s eyes & heart. So, she could understand that he wanted to be a little more than just friends.
But, The Lord had a different plan for our hero. See, our hero wasn’t exactly really ready for a commited relationship. So, The Lord whisper to him ” This one isn’t for you.” But, he didn’t listen to The Lord and continue to pursue her anyway. So, one night after sipping on some Hennessy and jamming to some New Edition. Our hero decided to say another prayer before he retired for the night. So, he kneeled at the foot of his bed & said this prayer. He prayed ” Father, you know how I feel about this woman & all I asked from you is to show her how much I could love her. The way she deserves to be love. Father you know my heart.”
As he slept the night away The Lord whispered into his ear again and said “This one isn’t for you. Why do you never understand my plan for you?” So, the next morning the our hero awoke from his sleep and realizes what he was doing wrong. He understood that he had some healing to do from previous relationships. Because his heart & soul has been damaged and needed so much repair. It would not be fair to bring this baggage into a relationship. So, he finally understood what the Lord was telling him in his sleep & stop pursuing the beautiful woman met in the elevator.
In life there wants & needs. We may think we know what we need. But only God knows what we need. We have to stand still at times to wait for our blessings. Having a good mate is a blessing but it’s one thing I know is you can’t force your blessings. So, our hero will just have wait until he finds the one for him.
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